On Being and Experience
what’s going on, you know? what’s happening? what’s important, what matters, why do you care about living? i care because life is good. love is good, joy is good, expressions are good, gender is good, people are good. there is so much turmoil in the pain of transitioning, yes, so much turmoil in the pain of _not_ transitioning. what of it? how do you live an effective life in the face of distraught, in the face of angst and fear and heartbreak and shame and deep, deep, refactoritory grief?